"It's not that I'm so smart, it's just that I stay with problems longer." was a quote by the famous Albert Einstien.
Whenever we face problems we will be very stressed and some time we'll think "oh no, it's the end of the world for me". Well I like to be positive, every problem is challenges. If we can overcome the challenges, we'll get rewarded. Maybe you'll say what does this guy talking crap. Well I do take every problem as a challenge to me. I realise that every time I think a problem is a "problem", I'll stressed out and will just sweep the problem under the carpet hoping that I can solve it later (which in most of the cases are not solved).
For those who thinks that it's the end of the world, relax. Just take a step back and think. I always ask myself and my family. What's the worst thing that can happen to us? Even if it happens, there's always good things coming your way whether you are aware or not and whether you'll like it or not. So, relax.
Life is pretty simple. Don't make it difficult.
Thursday, June 24, 2010
Problem Is Good
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Sunday, June 20, 2010
A Wise Man Can Teach You Millions
"One day of sitting across the table talking to a wise man is worth ten years of reading books" -Henry Wadsworth Longfellow-
Saw this on the club house's wall while playing golf with my mates this morning. The words catches my eyes instantly and I thought to share it with everybody. I totally agree with it as a wise man can share with you million things.
As an example, you are better off talking to one about current affairs rather than turning the pages of your local newspaper which only offers you politics, gossips and lots of pictures which in the end will distract you more. You can exchange ideas and views and at the same time increase your ability to critically judge any issues and broaden your thinking horizon.
I always enjoy the company of a wiser people (at least wiser than me). They will share with you their experiences (although at one stage during the conversation you'll feel like they are just bragging about themselves) which you can put into practice. Of course you'll hear "I did this", "I did that", "I would do this" and in return you will say "oh yeah", "really?", "and then...". But don't let the conversation to just be another conversation or for the other people to raise their self esteem. In one ear out the other. Try to get the best out of the conversation. Definitely you'll learn a lot of things.
Well thats all from me folks...
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Thursday, September 20, 2007
Mindset..Mindset..Mindset
If you keep saying you can't stand your job, you might lose your job.
If you keep saying you can't stand your body, your body can become sick.
These words captured my interest. Some people say you are what you eat. These words means you are what you think. I used to be a timid, shy and introvert person and still am now. But ended up after finish primary school, I achieved only a little victories in all the wars I've encountered. I'm saying to myself, "hey, what have I done to myself?". Started to explore more of my inner-self and did a lot of self evaluation. Not that I'm not satisfied with all my achievements, just that I feel that I'm capabale to achieve more than what I am today.
The process changed myself a lot. Inspite of those negative thinking and imperfection, I forced myself to do things which I really hate before (of course only the good one..but some also bad). I did it all just to see how far ca I go and true enough I can do more beyond my capabilities.
One thing I learned, the most important, is we have to be positive. If you think positive, the outcome will be positive. Take problems as your challenges. Treat your imperfections as uniqueness. Think of your mistakes as part of your learning. Then you can beat your subconcious mind and be a better person.
If you think you are good, there's a better person than you. If you think you are better, there's always a person who did the best in whatever they do. Don't stop challenging yourself. Start by winning small battle. Maybe you'll lose some battle, but remember, losing will craft you into a stronger being and one day you'll win the war of your life. Be smart in choosing your battleground. Your act today will determine who you are tomorrow.
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Tuesday, September 18, 2007
Before Anything..Prepare Everything
BEFORE YOU SPEAK... LISTEN
BEFORE YOU WRITE... THINK
BEFORE YOU SPEND... EARN
BEFORE YOU CRITICIZE...WAIT
BEFORE YOU PRAY...FORGIVE
BEFORE YOU QUIT...TRY
Be careful of what you do everyday. Everything have impact to your life. Every action taken have its reaction from others onto yourself. Use other people as your mirror, and you'll get the real picture of yourself. I believe that every good deeds will be rewarded and bad deeds will be punished.
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